Mediumship works on a love vibration, where there is love that love can never be broken. Should you have a private sitting, it is necessary to have an open mind and not expect the person who you want a message from to come forward first.
If you have never received a message from the world of spirit then it is likely to be a life changing experience.
Often spirit will bring forward a friend or a distant relative first (You may not have known all your family members but don't forget they know you), if the medium were to bring forward your love ones first, it may be too emotional for you to carry on with your message.
Be open minded and take the blinkers off. Answer the medium with a Yes or a No, don't provide the medium with information, as that could be the next piece of evidence to leave their lips. The mediums work is to prove that life is eternal, so open you hearts and send your love to your friends and family in the spirit world, as it is they that have come forward to communicate with you.
The medium is just the instrument used by spirit to convey the message and give proof of survival.
Every medium works differently, it depends on how their guides and the instrument have blended their energies together.
Mediums just raise their vibrations to link with the spirit world, this takes many years to develop, we all have the gift spirit and some of you will choose to develop your gift.
We are all born with the gift, but then life gets in the way and it might take years before we agree to work as instruments or spirit. To develop the gift you will need to sit in a development group, this group need to be a loving group as you are there for yourself and the development of the group.
Some have the gift naturally but it is the discipline you need to have to work for spirit. You cannot just go around giving messages off. You need to learn to open yourself and close yourself, not to be open all the time as this will make you feel very drained.
There is a time and place when you work for spirit. When we tell people what we do you can guarantee we get asked, what do you have for me? Do you ask your plumber to sort your taps out when he /she is not working? You obviously don't, so don't let people impose on your private time. Your link will develop over the years and also when you are working as a medium, never limit spirit, you never stop learning, you should always sit for spirit and meditate daily, this is your connection to spirit, you are building a relationship with your guides and helpers of which you will have many along your pathway.
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